It’s actually simple, when you know how. Learn and accept the rules of the game of life, and play by those rules to get what you want. It’s interesting, because when you actually start to question why you want anything in life, you very quickly come to the conclusion that the reason you want anything more than where you are is because you think you will feel better if you had it. The other thing you quickly realise is that you can’t ever be truly happy unless you make movements towards your desires, towards your dreams out there ahead of you in your future.
The bad news is that you can never regress in life and be a happy person. When you have identified something that you want, you have to move towards that goal or you will feel not feel joyful. Life causes you to expand, to want more, to become more than you were before. You may keep up with this expansion and you may not, it is really up to you. Some go along with the expansion willingly, and live happy lives as a result. Others are more reluctant as they feel the tension between their desires and the life they are living, and they inherently know they should be the expanded evolved person they want to be. If you have powerful desires in life, and fail to keep up with them, you may choose to numb out the pain with some kind of behaviour or substance, or you may choose to end the pain and your life, by checking out early.
Some people who fail to keep up with their expanded selves come to the conclusion that the trick is to limit their own desire, as that was what they concluded was causing the pain in the first place. It wasn’t desire per se, just their inability to keep up with their desire. They might become spiritualists who declare that one should want for nothing, and that the lusting after material possessions is wrong. Whatever they decide, it is their inability to keep up with their life’s work that causes their pain, and they can only be truly joyful if they follow their dreams.
It is fair to say that your average Joe doesn’t understand how he gets what he gets in life, and so he seeks to control the physical world around him, coming up with laws and rules and regulations to protect himself from things he doesn’t want. If Joe were self-empowered, he wold feel no need to do such things, indeed he would realise the futility of such actions. He would stop trying to think what to do, and would start to feel his way along the path.
Indeed, its not until you let go of your attempt to control the outside world that you can come into your own power. Look inside yourself and control the way you feel. The great religious teachers all spoke of unconditional love, and this is what they meant. Feel good, regardless of the conditions. Conditional love sounds a bit like this: “I will feel good when I see things which please me, and bad when I see things which don’t”. Unconditional love says ” I will love you regardless of what you do, because love is who I really am, and there is nothing more important than feeling good because when I feel good I am allowing the goodness of life to flow through me, I feel alive and I feel good” How then to practice unconditional love? By giving people the benefit of the doubt, by realising that they are trying their best, that they might be having a bad day, by realising that you’d rather be happy than right, and that ultimately it feels so right to feel good and so wrong to feel bad. It’s no that you’re bad, just that your thoughts in that moment are. When your mother scolded you when you were young and called you bad, your bad feeling wasn’t because you were bad, but because your thoughts of yourself (which you got from your angry mother) were so far from what you really know to be true, that you felt the dissonance.
Unfortunately the majority are trained away from their own true power as they grow up surrounded by people who are living conditional love. These well meaning caregivers need others to modify their behaviour in order for them to feel good. Unfortunately for you this trains you away from the only important thing in life; the way that you feel. The only thing of any importance to you, is the way that you feel. It determines everything that comes to you. Everything else really is irrelevant. So to get to this point where you can control the way you feel, and therefore how the world responds to you, you need to understand where your emotions come from and why they are so important to you.
Do you understand this game called life? How the world addresses itself to you? How you get or don’t get what you get in life? How is it that some are wildly successful and others live lives of mediocrity? Why are some people rich beyond your wildest dreams and other work so hard and earn but a pittance? Is life a game of chance, and is there any benefit in working hard? How do we make the world a fairer place for everyone living here? Do we need to change the systems we currently have in place?
There are so many questions. Where to begin? We need to stop thinking, and start feeling the way to go. Emotions are the key to your life’s guidance, and few understand the power or the incredible subtlety with which they guide. A correct understanding and use of one’s guidance will lead to your life’s desire. Before we talk about emotions, we need to consider what causes them, that’s right folks, it’s Law of Attraction.
Law of Attraction takes care of orchestrating all things in life; matching up like and like vibrations in both physical and non-physical realities. It is fair to say that it’s worth knowing about (it’s really the only law worth talking about). Have you heard the expression “Birds of a Feather Flock Together”. This is what law of attraction does. It matches up like and like vibrations; essentially we attract to us things that are similar to who we are. Similar? In what way?
It you consider your brain as a radio receiver and transmitter, with the ability to tune in to unlimited frequencies. Good feeling happy high flying thoughts have high frequencies and bad feeling, sad, depressing thoughts have low frequencies. When we tune into these frequencies, law of attraction will match us up with the frequency to which we are tuned. Tune to love and see the love in the world. Tune to beauty and see how much beauty there is in the world. Tune to abundance and see the natural abundance in the world. Of course the same goes for the negatives of all of these things, but I wouldn’t recommend you look for those. It’s not that these things have been created by your thoughts. They were there all along, it’s just that you can see them now that you are tuned into their frequency. You have rendez vous’d with them.
So how does Law of Attraction apply to the real world? If I behave ‘as if’ I’m successful, will I become a success? Well, not necessarily. The Law of Attraction matches you up with things which match the way you feel about ‘those subjects’ in your life. If you feel successful, then Law of Attraction will match you up with situations which feel that way. If you only act or use words to pretend you are successful, but you still feel like a failure, then you cannot achieve success until you start feeling successful. You might even be a success in the eyes of others, but not in your own eyes. Feel the way you want to be, and let Law of Attraction bring you everything you want.
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